Most of our discussions are based on relationships, isn't it? It is the single most pampered entity among friends, especially close ones. It enjoys a lot of hype and even though I hate to say it, but it does affect me and it definitely rules my thoughts when I allow myself to be sad.
So, what exactly have I got to say today? Feelings? Commitment? Breakup? Togetherness? Not really. I think I should write about the root cause of all these - Expectations!Yes, I believe expectations are behind the success and failure of any relationship. Pardon me for my words. I know there never can be success or failure in a relationship but what I meant by it is the probability of two people ending up together as per their commitment at some point of time in their life.
I don't know what a guy expects. But I believe a girl looks for her best friend in her life partner.She wants someone who accepts her for what she is without any judgement. She wants someone who accepts her mistakes, her follies, her silliness, her stubbornness with a greater heart.Someone who can understand her silence, her loudness,her tears and her smiles with a difference. She doesn't seek a highly qualified person always nor does she want a rich beau to confide in. She seeks the shoulders of someone when she feels tired of switching among the myriad roles she has been playing or has to continue playing throughout her life. She admires the person who likes her without the heavy makeup. She respects the person who respects her thoughts, her ideals and her most importantly. She wants to spend the rest of her life with the person who can forgive her for what she did. She likes being led by him and being taken care of . She wants him to understand why she cannot see him with another girl. She wants him to know that even though she doesn't say it often but she envisions an entire life with him when she commits.
So the next time, you feel that you haven't understood your girl or would never understand, try to think over. You haven't tried enough.Because once you do, you cannot possibly ever get anyone who understands you better or a life partner like her.
